always wanted to breastfeed my baby...partly its good for baby, and partly is because can slim down fast :) hahaa...selfish mummy....
anyway, during confinement, there's always conflicts between my mum and MIL....older generation always feel that baby doesn't get enough milk as they can't see how much they consume. but if we were to supplement, the demand will drop and the flow will drop too...
its the toughest period of my life as i have to deal with explanations and objections.
also, the way we bring up kids. for my mum, she's bubbly and chirpy. always talks loudly to phoebe.. there's nothing wrong of coz, but sometimes i feel that phoebe wants quiet times...
then there's the issue of pacifiers. why give pacifiers so early? mum is not happy that we do not want to give phoebe pacifier, saying its a hard time for her....blah blah...
MIL feels that phoebe is not drinking enough, thus not wanting to sleep....i not eating enuf so not producing milk. sigh...
then baby also complain...say mummy always carry phoebe, he got no chance to carry. instead of him consoling me, become i console him...aiyo!
but all is good experience...and evrybody is so gan cheong bec they love phoebe baby..that's all i need :)
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